Moving On...

So Drew was dumped today by his fake online internet girlfriend, Tracy. A half hour later after Tracy said thanks but no thanks, Drew hid his profile on match.

Part of the dumping email said this:

Plus, it seems like you have a lot going on right now. You're just out of a relationship and it appears that you have a few other things going on. Not only that, but I felt that you were really pushing to talk or meet when I said that I wasn't ready.

Drew told Tracy that he was going swimming with a friend, to dinner then to watch her nephew play hockey. Tracy asked if they were more than friends because a guy won't typically do all that stuff unless he's interested in more. Drew never responded to that email.

Tracy's dump letter said this, too:

While match may be a way of meeting people, I've decided that it's just not for me. I was talking with one of my girlfriends about it and she made a comment about it seeming like people were on there ordering something online. You pick something, try it out and if you don't like it, you always have one or two or more backups ready and waiting to chose from. It's not the type of environment that I want to meet people in.

So who knows if it was Tracy's email, the fact that I accidentally looked at his profile when I was logged in the other day, whether he is just taking a break or if he met someone else.

One thing I do know is that Drew never, for a moment had his profile hidden when we were "dating".

I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does...

It makes me sad that he lied to me about his actions.

It makes me sad that I let this go on so very long.

But at least now I can begin the process of healing and moving on...

I just wonder how this will affect my next relationship and the trust factor.