So the weekend has come and gone…
Friday I talked with Paul and all went well… At some point during the conversation he said that he could see a future with me which made me smile. After that I gave Paul a card I bought since it was two months since we started dating…you know, one of those mushy ones which basically said that I had given up on love, but then I met him…and am looking forward to a happily ever after. Awww…
Saturday was good - we spent most of the day together. In the a.m. we went to his daughter's basketball game, they lost by 1 point. :( Paul got into a spat with his daughter and was a distraught about it as she left the game crying. While we were out running errands, we stopped by his ex's house so he could resolve things with his daughter. So glad we did because it was like a huge weight lifted off of his shoulders. We went over to the house to check things out and get a handle on what will be worked on first. After that we cleaned ourselves up and went to a comedy club then out for a quick bite… Once home, we had a nice evening in! :) Although it seems that Paul has an allergy to one of the hair products I use. Years to find products that work with my hair…now I have to start over. Any who he was up for an hour or so with a stuffy nose and had to take some drugs to help him get passed it. Oy! LOL!!! Guess I'll be starting a new search and going with super straight hair for a while.
Sunday morning we got up, Paul made pancakes and sausage. We talked for a bit and I went home around noon. He had to work and then the kids were dropped at 5ish. I ran errands, picked up poop (snow finally gone from backyard - OMG, what a mess it was!), folded six loads of laundry, went to the gym and relaxed for the evening. I almost forgot…I bought myself a tanning package yesterday, too. I haven't done anything for myself in a long time, so I figured…why not?! Plus, it was buy one, get one free - two months for the price of one! :) Anyway, I had no clue how long to go for, the girl suggested 8 minutes…I said okay. I got in there and promptly fell asleep. I am a little red right now…Owie!!! No tanning for a couple days and less minutes the next time I go! Doh! LOL!!
While I was sitting watching TV last night I was pondering whether or not it was really the situation with his ex. I'm okay with things with her and what's going on there, I'm not sure that was really the root issue of what was bothering me. I think more than anything the issue is time. I value and want to spend time with him…and right now, that's just not going to happen to the extent I want it too. He's busy with work, kids, new house… My life is relatively uncomplicated and seems I have too much free time on my hands. I just need to adjust my expectations and put my pea brain in check with reality…Gigi is not allowed to come out and play anymore!
All is good, I just need to chill.
In the words of The Rolling Stones…I can't always get what I want…especially when I want it… But if I keep on trying, I'll get what I need! ;) Hell, who am I kidding? I have what I need! I think I'm falling in love this man and it seems like he is falling for me… Yippee! :) :) :)
1 comment:
YIPPIE:) so happy to hear you are happy and are leaving Gigi behind lock and key.
Oh, what a bummer about Paul's allergies. Girl do i know how that is. i am pretty much allergic to anything cosmetic, shampoos, conditoners, lotions etc. When i met Steve he had to change everything he used, because I he made me itch so bad, lol
but no more, i found some great products for him and myself and haven't had a single allergic reaction since I switched over.
if you want to know more, let me know (don't feel right advertising here :),kwim? )
Have a terrific day!!
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