Seems the relationship road was just not meant for Paul and I.
Today it hit me as to why we possibly have been having such difficulty. We are at two different places in regards to the relationship continuum.
During our time together, it seems I have been two steps, two yards, two miles...farther down the continuum than Paul has been.
Because I am farther down the continuum, I expect certain things. I expect certain behaviors. I expect the other person to be in the same place I am...
And when the other person isn't that far down the continuum...they don't expect the same things...
...and there-in lies the disconnect.
The disconnect can lead to all sorts of problems...as Paul and I have learned.
We were disconnected, even after all this time, and it's sad.
It's not easy.
It's hard...for both of us.
It breaks my heart that it's ending up like this...but we have been in two different places for too long...and both of us realize it.
Two people...two different places... :(
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