Actions vs. Words

Yesterday I was talking with Drew… We talked for a good hour or so in the early evening. During the conversation, he asked if I still had some salmon in the freezer left over from his charter fishing trip. I said yes. He then goes on to tell me that he forgot he had promised some friends he swims with some fish and would I mind if he gave what I had to them because we had eaten all the salmon he had at his place. I said no I wouldn't mind, just to remind him to give it to him next time he was over. He said that he would just take it Saturday a.m. when he left for his swim. I told him no problem, just remind me.

So, Mr. Non-committal is making plans and assuming he will stay over this Friday, just like he does most of the time… Oh dear, does this mean we have a routine?!?! Ack! LOL!!!

We talked again later Sunday evening for a good hour. And I can't recall where in the conversations this took place…but… He was razzing me, again, for not seeing him in the hallway at work one day last week. I can't help that I am not always paying attention to people walking around me when engrossed in a conversation with someone… A friend of mine just got hired back in a new position, so her and I were catching up. I called him a stalker, he told me that I am ignoring him. So, I told him that he should have said, Hi, Sue… His response was something like, oh you would have introduced me as your partner outside of work.

So, is Mr. Non-committal inferring I am his partner outside of work? Hmmm…

This morning I get to work around 8:30 and am busy working away. Soon I see a little email from Drew pop up in the corner of my computer window.

This afternoon Drew has a friend cancel out of a fishing trip they had planned on Friday and who does he ask? Me! Specifically: Wannna take friday off and go on the boat . .. ..just cruise around and drink:)

Hmmmm…

Every now and then I still flounder back and forth about what is going on with us…then he does these little things that just surprise the heck out of me.

You know what they say…actions speak louder than words.

Right?????